In the Book of Mormon, there is a record of a family who traveled from the Tower of Babel to the American continent. The family of Jared soon received their first glimpse of a vast, stormy ocean, having been required of the Lord to crawl into some mysterious air-tight vessels they were promised would carry them safely to a better place. As they gazed into the deep, moving water, they breathed the unfamiliar sea salt and felt the ice cold water lap at their feet. "What will become of our family?" "Can we do this thing that God requires of us?"

These were the questions we asked as our family stood on the edge of a new journey in February 2011. Before Cathi was diagnosed with aggressive breast cancer, we saw the waves of an unfamiliar storm brewing and felt the fear of anticipation. When the cancer was certain, our family was required to wade into the cold water, crawl into a mysterious vessel and trust the Lord would be in charge.

The family of Jared was given stones touched by the finger of the Lord that provided light inside their vessels "that they might not cross the great waters in darkness......and it came to pass that...(they) set forth into the sea, commending themselves unto the Lord their God. And it came to pass that the Lord God caused that there should be a furious wind blow upon the face of the waters, towards the promised land; and thus they were tossed upon the waves of the sea before the wind. And it came to pass that they were many times buried in the depths of the sea, because of the mountain waves which broke upon them, and also the great and terrible tempests which were caused by the fierceness of the wind. And it came to pass that when they were buried in the deep there was no water that could hurt them, their vessels being tight like unto a dish, and also they were tight like unto the ark of Noah; therefore when they were encompassed about by many waters they did cry unto the Lord, and he did bring them forth again upon the top of the waters. And it came to pass that the wind did never cease to blow towards the promised land while they were upon the waters; and thus they were driven forth before the wind. And they did sing praises unto the Lord; yea, the brother of Jared did sing praises unto the Lord, and he did thank and praise the Lord all the day long; and when the night came, they did not cease to praise the Lord. And thus they were driven forth; and no monster of the sea could break them, neither whale that could mar them; and they did have light continually, whether it was above the water or under the water." Read the rest: http://lds.org/scriptures/bofm/ether/6?lang=eng

This blog is the captain's log of our family's journey. It will serve to keep all of you updated on Cathi's condition but also be a place where I can express the lessons we are learning so that it might be a source of strength for others who are going through difficult challenges. We are certainly not unique in this regard. I hope to continue trusting in the light we have been given and to lead our family when we are encompassed by the dark ocean or tossed by its waves. We sincerely seek for your faith in asking the Lord to calm the water, give strength beyond our own and lead all of us of us to a better place.

Saturday, October 29, 2011

25th Wedding Anniversary Honeymoon

Cathi and I just returned from a trip we've looked forward to for a long time . . . one of those things we talked a lot about during Cathi's cancer treatment. Here are some pictures from the trip . . .


Looking out the window from the first B&B we stayed at in Sodus Point, NY, just feet away from Lake Ontario (Maxwell Creek Inn). This early 1800's home was used as part of the underground railroad with actual tunnels going from the lake to the fireplace in the basement. Pretty cool.


Here's a better picture of the scenery outside of our window.


Here is the front of the B&B . . .


One of the many apple orchards surrounding Sodus Point. We especially enjoyed tasting the Honey Crisps apples, a variety that was developed at Cornell University a few years ago.


We spent a lot of time in the town of Palmyra visiting several early church sites.


Cathi with a missionary couple inside the Hill Cumorah visitor center.


Me standing at the top of the Hill Cumorah where the Book of Mormon was dug from the ground by Joseph Smith.


From the top of the Hill Cumorah . . .


Another view from the top of Hill Cumorah . . .


Cathi in front of the visitor center at the Peter Whitmer farm in Fayette, NY. This is where the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints was first organized.


Cathi and I in the basement dining area of our B&B.


Here is one of the rooms inside the B&B.


Here's a good picture of the dining area we ate in every morning.


Me with Belinda, our wonderful hostess and owner of the B&B. Part of the experience was getting more acquainted with her each morning . . . since we were the only guests, she cooked breakfast only for us!


My good-lookin woman standing in front of Lake Ontario . . . the lake is so big, it looks more like the ocean.


Cathi in front of the Sodus Point Light House.


Cathi in front of the Palmyra Temple. We went through a session one morning and felt such reverence with the temple located so close to the Sacred Grove.


Here is a view of the Sacred Grove where Joseph Smith had his vision of God the Father and Jesus Christ.


Cathi at the beginning of the path leading into the Sacred Grove.


Joseph Smith's log home after first moving to Palmyra.


The Smith home that was started by Joseph's brother Alvin before he died.


A large barn owned by Brigham Young's father, now restored and displayed on the Smith farm.


More of the Smith farm.


From inside the window of our second B&B in Burton, OH.


Inside of our room at the Red Maple Inn.


Cathi and I eating at a restaurant in Burton, OH called the Welshfield Inn . . . the food was delicious!


Here is a picture of the Kirtland Temple. It was a cold, rainy day.


Cathi on the steps of the Kirtland Temple, trying to stay dry and warm.


Cathi with a missionary couple who gave us a tour of the Newell K Whitney store in Kirtland.


Just a couple of kids in love . . .


Me inside of an Amish cheese store in Middlefield OH, home of the fourth largest Amish population.


We saw many Amish buggies being pulled by horses throughout Middlefield OH. We tried looking for some Amish farms, but were not successful. They apparently are very good at maintaining their privacy.


Cathi and I pretending to be Amish . . .


The John Johnson farm in Hiram, OH. This is where Joseph Smith was tarred and feathered by a mob of intolerant locals.


John Johnson farm . . .


Me with one of the missionaries that showed us the inside of the Johnson home.


Cathi outside of an awesome restaurant we ate at in Akron OH that displayed a lot of WWII memorabilia. The food was incredible!


Me inside an old army truck just outside of the restaurant.


Cathi inside an old phone booth that was originally on the Queen Mary (outside of the WWII restaurant).

Thanks to GREAT friends who took us to and from the airport and particularly the Burris family who kept all three of our kids so we could enjoy this time alone together!